Couples Counseling in NYC & NJ for Communication, Intimacy & Trust



Couples Therapy

For relationships that want to grow—on purpose.

Whether you’re navigating communication breakdowns, emotional distance, constant arguing, or just that quiet sense that something is “off,” couples therapy at Elevate Psychotherapy & Co. offers more than surface-level support.

We don’t just help you “fight better”—we help you understand the deeper patterns behind the arguments, rebuild trust where it’s cracked, and reconnect emotionally where it’s gone quiet.
You don’t need to be on the verge of a breakup to be here. You just need to want better—for yourself, your partner, and your relationship.

What Brings Couples In

(And what we help them move through)

  • Ongoing communication issues and misattunement

  • Loss of emotional or physical intimacy

  • Recovery from betrayal or broken trust

  • Parenting and partnership strain

  • Navigating different values or future plans

  • Feeling more like roommates or business partners than lovers

  • High-functioning relationships that look good but don’t feel good

it’s not too late to reconnect—if you both want more.

We blend emotionally focused therapy (EFT), Gottman Method tools, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and modern relational coaching to help couples create clarity, safety, and change that actually lasts.

We focus on helping you:

  • Identify and break unhelpful conflict cycles

  • Communicate clearly without triggering escalation

  • Repair emotional ruptures and rebuild trust

  • Deepen understanding of each other’s core needs

  • Navigate differences without power struggles

  • Reignite emotional closeness and physical connection


Each session is structured, collaborative, and emotionally honest—so you both feel seen, heard, and supported.


Our Approach

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We work with couples at every stage:

Long-term partners or married couples



Premarital or considering the next step



Dating or newly committed



Who We Work With

Partnerships recovering from infidelity or disconnection





High-achieving couples balancing intimacy with ambition





Parents navigating identity and division of labor





Every couple is different, but most begin to feel shifts within the first few sessions. We provide structure and tools early on, so you can start practicing new ways of connecting right away.

How long will it take to see changes?

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No. Our role is to understand both of you and the dynamic between you—not to blame or label. We’re here to help you both feel heard and to move you toward mutual understanding and growth.

Will the therapist take sides?

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That’s common—and okay. Therapy can be vulnerable. We create a space where both people feel supported, and where no one is “the problem.” Often, just one or two sessions shift the energy.

What if my partner is skeptical or nervous?

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Not at all. Some couples come to repair, others come to prevent. The healthiest relationships are often the ones that invest early and intentionally.

Do we need to be in a crisis to start therapy?

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Frequently asked questions

You don’t have to be in crisis to want something stronger.

LET’S REBUILD WHAT MATTERS.


If the connection feels off—or the same patterns keep showing up—it might be time for a different kind of support. Whether you're navigating communication struggles, disconnection, or just want more depth, we’re here to help you move forward—together.




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